Questions to Ask Kids About Friendship

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“Who did you hang out or play with today?”

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“Who did you feel most yourself around?”

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“Did anyone make you laugh today?”

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“Was there a moment with friends that felt really good?”

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“Who did you sit with at lunch or recess?”

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“What's something fun you did with a friend recently?”

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“Did anyone make you feel included or left out today?”

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“Was there a moment when you wished someone had noticed you?”

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“Did you see anyone being left out? How did that feel?”

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“What helps you feel like you belong?”

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“Is there a group or friend situation that's been on your mind?”

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“What would make you feel more included?”

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“Did anything feel unfair between you and a friend?”

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“Was there an argument or awkward moment with someone?”

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“What happened, and how did it feel?”

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“What do you wish had gone differently?”

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“Is there a friendship thing you don't know how to handle?”

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“What would help you feel better about what happened?”

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“What makes someone a good friend to you?”

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“Who is someone you trust at school?”

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“What's something a friend did that meant a lot to you?”

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“What kind of friend do you try to be?”

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“What do you look for in a friend?”

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“Is there a friendship you feel really grateful for?”

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“Has any friendship been changing lately?”

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“Is there someone new you'd like to get to know better?”

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“What's hard about friendships right now?”

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“What do you wish I understood about your friend group?”

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“Who do you want to spend more time with?”

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“What would make your friendships feel easier this week?”